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One of my friends and I both struggle with infertility. My friend now has a 2-year-old after 3 miscarriages and a stillborn. She is LDS, but isn't active in the church. One of her friends once told her that if she lived more righteously she will be blessed with another baby!
It's even harder being active in the church and having people lecture you on how you should be "multiplying and replenishing the earth"! Hookers in Herndon de, my old institute teacher said that and then felt horrible when I explained why I had been married ahve 2 or 3 years and didn't have kids. I have only questioned God once so far in our trying. It was 2 years ago, we are doing foster care and also trying to adopt.
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Yes, 4 biological and 6 adopted! I was crushed, how could God fdiend them have another when I was still childless! I try not to question God, I remind myself that everything happens for a reason. Some reason we may never know in this lifetime. I've been told several times that it's my bad attitude or lack of faith that kept me from getting pregnant.
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In the Bible, there are examples of many women who are "barren. After studying these women, I began to notice a trend. While these women didn't have a ton of kids, their children changed the world.
Rachel, who was barren, only had two sons as opposed to Leah's 10, and ccant of them was Joseph who became a great prophet and leader. Many of us are goint descendants. She was a righteous woman, beloved Why cant i have a on going friend the Lord. Hannah was a righteous woman. The second wife of her husband actually made fun of her infertility who hasn't been there? She finally began to promise the Lord that if she could just bear a child she'd devote him back to the Lord.
She conceived and had Samuel. Who became a great prophet and leader. Elisabeth was barren and a very righteous woman.
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Nine months later, she bore John the Baptist, the man who Christ asked to baptize him. My point is that these women were ALL righteous, faithful and good women.
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Why cant i have a on going friend, "Petitioning in prayer has goinng me, again and again, that the vault of heaven with all its blessings is to be opened only by a combination lock. One tumbler falls when there is faith, a second when there is personal righteousness; the third and final tumbler falls only when what is sought is, in God's judgment—not ours—right for us.
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Our rejected petitions tell us much about ourselves but also much about our flawless Father.
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That's what I signed up for before coming here. BUT, I have grown because of my hardships. The Lord has literally opened the windows of Heaven in my darkest moments. I Why cant i have a on going friend gained more than what was taken away. And having children taken away from me was something exponentially huge, and yet, I have gained more.
I'm always sad when I hear about people who fall away from their religion when trials hit. It is exactly those trials that have made me unshakable in my faith. I have written a series on my blog on being quiverfull. S this series I Are there any Belgium jocks looking the fact that the Bible calls children a blessing, so how could they Why cant i have a on going friend detrimental to society?
I found a handful of demographers who are very worried about the fall in birthrates and the coming economic collapse that could signal. As to why brithrates are falling? Many women delay having children due to age of marriage or career. Maybe there are other environmental factors like cany, etc.
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It seems like these women who give up their babies are usually having them at a very young age. Check Why cant i have a on going friend my posts on becoming quiverfull for a more thorough treatment of this issue.
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For me, what I cling to is Isiah That magazine cover is incredibly offensive even to me- a fertile person. Who says there is a population problem??? Heavenly Father doesn't reward personal righteousness with children. The number of children a person has is not an indicator of how much He loves that person. It took us a long time to accept His promptings to look into adoption.
And once gokng let Him guide us, it gave us hope. I appreciate the responses to this blog, and I agree that this article made me angry.
People who could have 7children choosing to only have 2.